We were in counseling for almost a year and just treading water. Your courses (we both signed up) have shown us how to be in love again. It is a true marriage saving experience.
JanetGreetings, it’s working!!!!! This last lesson has me working hard to overcome my mind. Learning the difference between heart and mind has changed everything and it keeps getting better and better.
Inez
Whether you are the queen (woman) or the king (man) of your domain, your marriage kingdom must be brought back to the orderly splendor of happiness that it once was, or better. Although “on paper,” it seems logical that a combined effort would be needed, it is not. Our specialty is the solo approach. Privately, every couple's counselor will acknowledge the pitfalls of couples counseling
Many of our course takers had tried both individual and couples counseling. We were their last resort. They found all they needed.
TMF saved my marriage and my life. It enabled me to forget the past, no matter what happened. It lifted a big weight off me. There were no feelings of resentment, bitterness or hurt anymore. It didn’t matter how I was treated. It didn’t affect or phase me. There was a free feeling and the ability to rise above it all. No more subconsciously blaming or being angry inside.
I just want to testify! I am committed to the SEW method and began seeing results right away and have been so inspired and motivated because it works!! But this success is on another level!!! My husband had not asked me out on a date in at least 2 years. We went separate ways and tolerated each other from a distance. This morning he asked me if I wanted to go to one of my favorite restaurants and I screamed saying you’re asking me out, yes, I’m so excited, and he smiled. It was priceless! Our marriage is being restored and it’s wonderful to have tools that work!
You’re the best. I took course for men 6 months ago and still go back to it all the time. My marriage has improved tremendously, and so has my life. I’m so happy because my beautiful wife of 18 years was half way out the door! Forever grateful!
CameronIt totally transformed our marriage. We had a fair marriage, always focusing on church but our relationship was an old married couple. Now, after almost five months, our marriage has turned into such a love affair. I would compare it to two teenagers, giddy with love toward each other.
Junior
Your program got my attention because there is no ambiguity.
CindyYes — this is actually our specialty. Marriage is often described as a team effort, but we’ve seen that one person changing the dynamic is enough. Paul Friedman discovered this through years of experience, and we’ve helped countless couples where only one was committed. Think of your marriage as a sacred container that only the two of you share. When you learn to fill it with positives using our techniques, the entire relationship shifts — even if your spouse is resistant. You don’t need their participation for it to work.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “TMF saved my marriage and my life. It enabled me to forget the past… There was a free feeling and the ability to rise above it all.” — TMF Student
It’s never too late, and we never give up. Many of our students come to us after deep pain, but with the right guidance, things shift faster than you expect. The past loses its power when you focus on building love now.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “TMF saved my marriage and my life… No more subconsciously blaming or being angry inside.” — TMF Student
Traditional counseling often keeps couples stuck in the same patterns. Our approach is different: it’s solo-friendly, science-based, practical, and focused on what actually creates lasting change. Many students come to us as a last resort after counseling failed.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “I learned many secrets… After 3 decades of suffering, I would never expect this miracle… and it keeps getting better.” — TMF Student
You can see positive shifts right away when you apply the techniques, with steady improvement building over weeks. The course spans 12 weeks with lifetime access, so you go at your own pace. Most students spend time equivalent to the video length per session plus review.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “I listen to one course video probably 50 times… I have said ‘STOP’ probably 200 times… and I love my husband so much it brings me to tears.” — TMF Student
Yes. The love is still there — it’s just eclipsed by built-up pain and habits. Our course helps you clear the debris and actively cultivate love again. Many students rediscover deep connection and passion.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “Mr. Friedman suggests… text our husbands often, compliment them, and flirt… I love watching the videos; they have restored the love.” — TMF Student
Sign up for the $39.95 monthly plan. That works out to about $9.22 per week. We also offer a 3-day trial and 30-day guarantee so you can try it with very low risk.
Yes, your participation is fully private and secure. We use advanced protections, and your spouse will not receive any notifications or communications from us.
We understand the concern. That’s why we keep it affordable (under $10/week), with a 3-day trial and 30-day guarantee. Our students consistently tell us the results are life-changing.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “This course has been a lifesaver… It helped me in the darkest time of my life, gave me hope & tools to help fix my marriage & life.” — TMF Student
This is one of our specialties. Even when your spouse says it’s over, changing your approach can shift the dynamic dramatically. Many “impossible” cases have turned around.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “I am committed to the SEW method… My husband had not asked me out on a date in at least 2 years… This morning he asked me… Our marriage is being restored.” — TMF Student
No. We honor free will and do not focus on blame or past mistakes. The program helps you move forward with positive, practical steps to create happiness.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “I’ve been doing pretty good by practicing SEW… really no arguing… It’s a start but clearly working.” — TMF Student
We teach the SEW technique (patent pending) early in the course specifically for this reason. It helps you catch and redirect negative patterns so the changes become permanent.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “The SEW technique is amazing… It is already becoming a new habit… I am realizing how much I have slacked off toward my wonderful husband.” — TMF Student
The principles are universal truths that align with the core of most spiritual and religious traditions. They are practical and work whether you are religious or not. Paul’s teachings focus on love, free will, and the soul — principles clergy from many faiths have endorsed.
In 2001 Paul Friedman was a reputable and successful divorce mediator in San Diego when one of his couple clients asked him to save their marriage instead of ending it. It was already declared “over” by a highly respected marriage counselor so Paul accepted the challenge. As a divorce mediator, Paul knew that mental and psychological issues are NEVER the cause of marriage difficulties, nor was infidelity the true cause of failure. Every day good, sane, and “normal” people lose a marriage and family they could have turned into utter happiness.
The universal reason for marital unhappiness, suffering, and failure is nobody’s fault- it is a lack of truthful knowledge. It CAN be fixed.
Not too many centuries ago, scientists were put to death if they didn’t agree that tiny Earth was the center of the universe. These days that most people learn about marriage from watching sitcoms and movies, which are high on romance but un realistic about day-to-day married life. We are simply not taught what to do or how to live our marriage. Without a road map, marriage is nearly impossible. We would not try mountain climbing without training, but that’s how we begin and usually end our marriages.
Paul left his lucrative practice and spent 8 years working with the worst cases, creating teachings that work because they are 100% applicable. 25 years later his message of marriage truth is still gaining ground.