Most newlyweds go on their honeymoon to celebrate the beginning of their new
family, and to take a break from the work that had lead up to their wedding. It is a wondrous occasion, and this simple relationship advice will help you gain even more. Keep in mind, advice for honeymooners exists because this beginning is too important to be treated like any other vacation you’ll ever have.
Your marriage is a hive of honey. But will it remain this way, with all the highs and lows of connected love? Will you remember to keep your marriage sweet, buzzing with activities that build your marriage? Your honeymoon needs to stand out in your lives as an event unlike any vacation. Do you want to come home from your honeymoon to just talk about how drunk you got, the pretty scenery, or the cool waiter? Or would you rather remember your honeymoon as the time you connected on a deeper level, more meaningfully than you ever had?
Use your honeymoon as the fundamental event from which the depth of your relationship will grow and inspire.
Rather than just indulging in the physical aspects so commonly associated with honeymoons, embrace your new spouse from your heart.
Practice soul-enhancing techniques of lovemaking that you will feel at your very core.
Hold each other before sex, look into each other’s eyes, look into each other’s souls, and internally promise you will be there for one another and your future family, without judgment or reservation.
Enjoy your honeymoon to the most, and feel the shower of love that blesses you, your future family, and your happy marriage.
Did you take a premarital course? Do you know how to build your marriage from the bottom up? Do you know how to avoid the pitfalls that face every single couple no matter how sincere and in love they are?
Marriage is a true gift, but it is not a complete gift. Your marriage was made in heaven, but it must be assembled here in the cold, hard environment of a non-supportive world.
Imagine that you were given the gift of an un-assembled house. You have some land, a few trucks roll up with lumber, concrete, doors, windows, roofing, electric wire, etc. What would you do? Your marriage is like that. When you gave your vows and signed your license, you were given an un-assembled marriage. Now, it is up to you to put it together. But, do you know how?
You can learn to build a house, and you can learn to build a marriage. If you chose to build a house without instruction, it would be ugly, dysfunctional, and dangerous; same for your marriage!
The age of marriages “just working” without excellent marriage training is gone, if it ever existed at all. Your marriage is at the crossroads. You have free will. You choose where it goes from here.