There is nothing wrong with you. Many people are let down by the after-honeymoon period. But if you use this unhappiness as motivation to study marriage, you will be fine, and your marriage will become greater than you could ever imagine. And that is what we all want, isn’t it?
What positive habits serve as the foundation of your marriage? All couples who have a great marriage have a few positive habits in common. These are irreplaceable pillars of a joy-filled marriage.
What you should do if you just found out your wife wants a divorce varies. Luckily, there are some practical steps which will help your life, regardless of what happens.
If you don’t give up on your marriage, and if you begin to study in earnest, the chances for success are very high.
As a point of fact, men generally rely on their wife to be a window into the world women see all the time. Especially during sex, when women “feel,” husbands become temporarily absorbed in their love. So, it’s a good thing you enjoy your sexual intimacy.
“I Can’t Stop Being Angry” SHAN Los Angeles, California Dear TMF, I can’t stop myself from being mad at my husband, and it’s ruining our marriage. I know I’m not …
One warning: Be sure NOT to ask or insist he does exactly what you’re committing to do. The key is staying focused on yourself and doing your part for now. His direct experience of you changing is powerful and priceless!
Very few people actually get a divorce because of adultery. Of course, it’s difficult to track the statistics since the advent of uncontested divorce. Anyone involved in the divorce system will tell you most people get beyond adultery.
Anything and everything you experience, in whatever the venue or circumstance, including within your marriage, always, always, always happens as a result of what you think, say, or do. Cause and effect in marriage is as real as it is in “real life,” but most married people do not think about it or how to work with it.
Every couple who has come to see me in regards to infidelity was able to rescue and resuscitate their marriage.
In fact, they went on to have amazing marriages, because once they learned how to be married, the normal, evil actions of that infidelity were understood and put into a context of non-judgment.
Warning: This Article is for those who are having second thoughts soon after the wedding and are not yet pregnant and/or do not already have children with their new spouse.
Remember how you would have long conversations or just sit and hold each other? You are still you and your spouseis still the one you love, so the question is how to create your dream marriage. What happened?
Now, ask me about relationship compatibility. It always boils down to the same thing: the more you give, the better you live.
Please don’t imagine that perfect is not possible; it is. Some of the attributes you might come up with may be slightly different from what others come up with, but there will be definite similarities.
Marriage is God’s invention. Although God’s laws are “defined” through religion, His love is the universal component in all religions and the most important reality. While one religion may suggest the worship of God on your knees and another religion has you standing up while you pray, both religions are praying to the same God.
Isn’t it amazing that most of us will never really use much math in our daily life, yet schools pump it into our heads as if our life depended on it? On the other hand, we don’t know diddly about relationships, happy marriages, or the other gender, and we’re handed a diploma at graduation as if we are now prepared for life — it’s ridiculous!
When I speak with couples who face a troubled marriage, they readily admit they had no idea what they were getting into. By the time reality kicks in, they are ill equipped to define it.
