One – Don’t give up or be discouraged

Once you give up its over – don’t do that. The bottom-line reason your marriage has spiraled to this point is that a scientific understanding of marriage is untaught. It isn’t because you or your wife are bad or stupid. Sure, when things got weird both of you did things that made it worse, but how would you know to do differently? As you progress, you will learn, so don’t worry.

FAQ #1 – How do I know when my marriage is over?

You don’t, we don’t, but generally speaking, unless your wife is in an affair or has filed a restraining order, it isn’t too late.

Two – You, alone, can resuscitate your marriage

Not only can your marriage be saved, but by learning everything about marriage, your wife as a woman, and yourself, your marriage will be amazing based on your efforts alone. We do not believe in settling. Think of marriage as a construct. When you learn, what you do makes it fly.

FAQ #2 – What can I do right now?

The most useful thing to do is to stop doing a few things

Arguing – If she said, for instance, she wants a divorce, just listen. Don’t even say it’s not what you want. Listen. You can say you love her; but it is time for changes; not talk.
Don’t get mad, or sad, or defensive. Being reactionary is the old you. Being the old you will slip you further into the abyss.
Don’t make plans with yourself or her. Once you begin the work, things will start to change.

Three – Changing yourself is imperative

Don’t believe for a moment that this or that ruined your relationship. In virtually all cases, it is how you and she dealt with each other during your marriage. Upheavals are inevitable. Like turbulence when you fly. But when you know what you’re doing, they come and go without much of a problem.

FAQ #3 – Do we need marriage counseling, or can you help us?

Paul Friedman, who first articulated the science we teach, was a divorce mediator who got his clients from the best-of-the-best marriage counselors in San Diego. When he switched his practice to marriage saving in 2001, even the best of them sent their “impossible” clients to him. Some of you already tried marriage counseling or coaching. What we have is the epitome because we know you can do this when you learn how.

Four – Women are not men

In this age of “equality,” too many men and women imagine something that is not even close to being accurate. The truth is fine just as God made it, differences and all. But if you try to bridge the communication or understanding gaps from a male POV, it is like trying to train a cat (not implying your wife should be trained). Women, your wife, needs to be understood and responded to in ways that are 100% fine when you learn how. But don’t fool yourself – it isn’t a surface thing. For now, don’t allow yourself to judge her.

FAQ #4 – Do I just become a doormat?

No door-mating, and no dominating, either. At this point, be patient. You will learn so much that will change your life and, in turn, help your marriage.

Are You Ready?

Our Ways Work

Over 25 years ago, Paul was a divorce mediator in San Diego. In 2001, he was asked by a couple to save their marriage rather than file for a court order. Paul approached their already-failed marriage with the clear mission of restoring it to its original “intent” of happiness, love, and harmony — something unknown, much less taught. His approach deleted going through the dumpster of fault, blame, guilt, and shame. He defined a positive path of teaching what works and what doesn’t…to achieve happiness. After this first save, Paul helped couples, then individuals, for 8 years as he proved and memorialized the underlying science. By 2011, Paul had written two marriage-help books, begun training marriage counselors, created succinct online courses on marriage help, dating, pre-marriage, and counselor training, and, at the behest of a fellow divorce mediator, founded our nonprofit organization.

FAQ #5 – Do I need the online course or will one of the books work?

If your marriage is at or past the brink, it is not even close – sign up for the online course. If you are not sure, get the online course. The online course is designed for those who need close and sure guidance.

About the online course for men

The online course is 12 weeks of video training (about 60 videos) you can access anytime and rewatch as often as you like. The membership is lifetime. The classes cover everything: fighting, anger elimination (not managing), marital communication, the killers of marriage, right behaviors, and more. You also have the support of our special TMF-trained marriage counselor, forever. You learn in stages, building as you go.

Here is what men say during the course

“Thoroughly appreciating Paul’s words of wisdom. I’m on week 5 and my partner/wife has subscribed to her course .. All the crap that we’ve accumulated over the years is falling away. I look forward to experiencing the rest of his program and the benefits that come with it.

Here is what they say almost 15 years later

I first got the course about 15 years ago. My marriage was being stressed to the limit …I got about ¾ of the way through the program, and things improved. We had another kid.. then a few months ago, I found myself witnessing/participating in a toxic situation that was circling the drain. My wife was being vile and aggressive and ready to leave. It was rock bottom. Then I remembered the course and fired it back up. Within 15 minutes, I felt pretty ashamed. I had allowed the drive to survive to completely overcome the sanctity of marriage. I felt empowered because there were things I could do to improve things, even if I felt my wife was torpedoing our relationship. Now we are back to happiness, and I just wanted to thank you.

FAQ #6 – Is the course religious-based or biblical?

The answer is simple. You will not be asked to do anything that is against ANY religious doctrine, period. Our students/clients are from every religion or no religious belief at all. We are recommended by Catholic priests, pastors, imams, rabis, and even spiritual paths. Everything is based on universal principles that are as reliable as gravity.

What You Will Gain

Stop the constant arguments and emotional rollercoaster
Know exactly what to do when she’s upset, distant, or threatening divorce
Rebuild respect and attraction without chasing or becoming weak
Stay calm and strong instead of reactive or angry
Learn the real principles of marriage that actually work for men
Lifetime tools you can use forever — not temporary fixes

Real Results from Men Like You

Your videos and your book Breaking the Cycle saved my marriage. Thank you and God bless you!

Wade S., Huntington, WV

I have a burden for marriages... Jamie, my wife, and I have adapted the principles of Marriage Foundation and it revolutionized our marriage.

Gibson W., Big Creek, CA

This course works better than any advice out there. My marriage, as long as I continue to use these techniques, will last. It’s true that you only need to work on yourself to make your marriage turn around.

TMF saved my marriage and my life. It enabled me to forget the past… There was a free feeling and the ability to rise above it all.”

Marriage Help Course For Men

Men’s Marriage-Saving System

One – Don’t give up or be discouraged

FAQ #1 – How do I know when my marriage is over?

Two – You, alone, can resuscitate your marriage

FAQ #2 – What can I do right now?

Three – Changing yourself is imperative

FAQ #3 – Do we need marriage counseling, or can you help us?

Four – Women are not men

FAQ #4 – Do I just become a doormat?

Are You Ready?

Our Ways Work

FAQ #5 – Do I need the online course or will one of the books work?

About the online course for men

Here is what men say during the course

Here is what they say almost 15 years later

FAQ #6 – Is the course religious-based or biblical?

What You Will Gain

Real Results from Men Like You

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