The Only Marriage Course for Men You'll Need

Our process is well-defined, methodical, and complete. Our success rate is real. Our testimonials are real. We know that when your marriage is in trouble you don’t need outrageous promises or arrogant platitudes. What you need is simple and straightforward guidance that is tested and proven, not theoretical. Unlike traditional counseling, this relationship course for men focuses on practical action rather than endless discussion.

Because we don’t “talk it out”, assign blame, label you, or your wife, or do anything else that is not going to directly move your marriage toward the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony, our course is ideal. All the “usual” “marriage help” that is considered “normal” wastes precious time and energy. When Paul Friedman, our founder was a divorce mediator, over 22 years ago, it was traditional marriage counselors who sent him his business. We know for a fact that “normal” doesn’t work. What Paul created is proven, with thousands of courses already having been used to great success. This approach makes it a highly effective marriage program for husbands seeking practical, results-driven ways to improve their relationship.

Nothing moves your relationship toward happiness as well, whether it is something you come up with on your own, or try from other programs, or learned in counseling. Our process works, and it works like mathematics. It will move you and your marriage forward without fanfare. If your car gets stuck in a snowbank the tow truck operator has already heard all the stories. He doesn’t judge you. He just gets you unstuck. That’s what we do. We are not fancy or glamorous. Everything is simple and transparent. You will know what you are doing and why and what you can expect along the way. Ultimately, you will achieve the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony.

Paul recognized the most effective marriage help is step-by-step guidance. When you interact with our marriage counselors, which is part of the package you buy, it is to help you understand, and give you context. It is about process and always positive. The course for men is complete. You won’t dwell on your, or your wife’s, mistakes, or anyone’s flaws. The work we assign you is solid. The course pulls you out of the “hole” you are in. It will end the drudgery of a not-so-good (or completely failing) marriage. The work you do will speed you toward the kind of marriage most people only dream about, and you will achieve the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony.

The defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony are our polestars. This is “physics.” Every cause produces a definable effect. Using our proprietary SEW™️ technique will give you insights and power over yourself. You will steadily remove all the obstacles that are blocking connection. You will learn to cultivate your love, that from your wife’s perspective has been missing. You will also learn that marital communication is very different, specialized, and not in some trendy way. Marital harmony is not just “getting along. Living in marital harmony is the kind of soulmate connection you felt early on.

Most men come to us beyond frustrated because their wife has made it clear, sometimes directly, with a “change or else” ultimatum. Whether spoken, or implied, her speaking out is a good thing when that happens, and it should be appreciated, not resented. Don’t take it personally. Although we all can plead innocence due to “not knowing”, your marital ignorance will disappear as you progress with the course. What she wants and what you want, too, is a lot different than what you now have. The answer is learning what is true and what works. And while we respect everyone who is sincerely trying to help marriages, including clergy, therapists, or coaches, until Paul created the teachings we now can rely on, the real way to heal marriages was just not available.

The fact is “do this” and “do that” plans don’t change marriages, not for long anyway. You need to go much deeper. You need to change, not both of you, just you* (see footnote). Your wife still wants you, but not the “you” who has been pushing her away and hurting her to the point that she has had enough.

Men and women are different both physically, and psychophysiologically (how our biology affects our psychology). There are so many manifested differences that unless they are learned, misunderstandings grow like fleas on a dog. Paul recognized, early on, that marriages begin with love but are soon drowning in misunderstanding-caused problems that stem from good people reacting and over-reacting. He realized that a focused effort to understand and control one’s own mind, while learning how their partner’s mind works, while learning how marriages work, is the fastest way to happiness. This was his approach in live sessions, and it works perfectly for our online courses.

Your course will give you so much insight that it will be like turning on the lights. This marriage course for men is the simplest and fastest approach. It is life-changing. Seeing how our “old” selves treated our wives is not easy on the ego but it is necessary and is part of what the SEW™ is for. Paul says eventually we will all “get there” but why not go for it right now.