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Now is not the time to give up
Even if your husband broke his vows, wants out, or did things that were extremely hurtful and destructive, it is truly not too late. Once you give up, your marriage is over - you don’t need to despair – you just need good guidance. Now is the time to shift your thinking from exit strategies to recovery. Make up your mind to refashion your marriage into heaven on earth.
FAQ #1 – But what if it’s really too late for us?
It isn’t too late until you decide your marriage is over; only then is it too late. What you need is supportive and principled scientific guidance. There is much for you to learn and put into dependable and proven action.
“I am very sincere when I say, thank you! I went back to the beginning of the course, and I'm listening, reading, and taking notes. Then I listen again. You were right. It is working!”
Audry M.
Your husband not being on board is not a problem
Men are not like us, they are almost never on board. They go along with us when it suits them. In this case, you’ll have everything you need to bring him and yourself back to lovebird status. Get rid of the “it’s too late” mentality. It isn’t too late, and that’s a promise.
FAQ #2 – But can I save my marriage myself?
Absolutely! If you pour enough sweetener into a container, even the strongest bitterness will be overwhelmed. If you utilize our process, you will experience changes in yourself and him that you never dreamed possible. Even in couples counseling, which we don’t recommend, a marriage can only be turned around when the wife is committed.
Our courses are gender based. This approach isn’t sexist. It is realistic.
“Thank you, I am so very thankful for all the help I receive from all the TMF counselors. …I literally spent months reading articles online and buying other courses that never really helped me, unlike the TMF course. I blamed myself for my hubby’s pornography use, you know, “you're not good enough,” “you don’t look like any of the porn stars he always looks at,” etc….but for the first time these words you wrote: “He is not you, nor are his bad habits your problem. …why give away your power, power that can be used to master your mind to feel joy, to worry of any kind?” I also agree that I was not loving with “Unconditional Love,” and I am really seeing a big difference when I do. These things are SO powerful. I am literally taking all this information in the course and sucking it up like a sponge. When I am done, I will be giving one of the best reviews.”
Yolanda D.
Learn what you need, and apply it
Becoming your marriage’s marriage expert is the way forward. Don’t be afraid of that. Think about this as learning a new skill, a new job, or even how to bake like a pro. That you cannot do this because you don’t have a degree or something is utter nonsense. Make up your mind that not only will you fix your marriage, but you will also make it everything you thought it would be when you first dated, and more…much more!
FAQ #3 – Will my husband keep cheating?
No, he won’t. As you grow into the most desirable woman on the planet for him, your husband will curtail his bad behaviors naturally. The deceptions will end and the “piecrust promises” will end, too. Promises to change are meaningless from both him and from you. It’s your inner changes you are guided to make that will create a new marriage.
“I learned many secrets. When I started the course I was able to find peace within and hope for our marriage, despite how he treated me. Now, our marriage has changed. He is a totally different man. He is awesome. After 3 decades of suffering, I would never have expected this miracle… and it keeps getting better. How constantly thankful I am for TMF.”
Gretchen S.
Don’t worry about what others think
Your marriage is unique. Your relationship is unique. What happens in your marriage is also unique. On the other hand, how you have dealt with problems, how you communicate, and how you have not really been focused on “feeding your marriage” are the common mistakes we have all made in our marriages. What should encourage you is that when you shift your perspective and behavior, your marriage will come back stronger than ever. Consider the hurting houseplant. Once you learn how to care for it, the plant does fine. This is what’s true for your marriage, too. Past hurts will dissolve as your love and connection grow.
“I have worked very hard at using the SEW technique to stay in the energy of love and have been loving, compassionate, and kind toward my husband. I know we became disconnected because we are both doctors who got so burnt out that I was not connected to my heart. I am fully connected to my heart now because of this course. He has asked me to join him on walks with the dog, and for his birthday dinner. A month ago, after I was away for a week with my daughters, he told me how good I looked and gave me a tender kiss on the lips when I went to hug him goodbye. I can feel his love.”
Cynthia R.
A great wife inspires her man to greatness
Being a great wife is easier and more natural than you think. We were never taught the core principles and rules for marriage, so all you need do is learn them. Of course, there is a bit more to it than that, but you will do fine absorbing everything and putting it into practice.
FAQ #4 – Is your guidance based in scripture?
That’s a fair question because you want to learn how to save your marriage without being pushed into something else, and yet you don’t want to offend God’s word. Our teachings are based in both scientific and spiritual principles. Nothing we offer conflicts with any religious teachings.
“Now that I am taking the course, I know I shouldn’t have done so much, but at the time I was hurting so badly and wishing I could make my eyes unsee. I now try to “put it behind me” according to the videos from TMF. I am so thankful that I found Mr. Friedman’s YouTube videos! They led me to the marriage help course. I am on The Anatomy of a Fight, Part 2 right now. Thank you again.”
Jenine A.
Getting started
Our number one mission is to help you and we take our mission very seriously. Most who come to us are struggling and we know that. When they begin their marriage-saving journey with our online course, we know it isn’t easy to put everything aside, so we are there for you when you have a question. ANY question! “Thank you so much for your help.
I agree with you and don’t know where I would be right now without this course. All the counselors are so very helpful. Again, thank you!!! Sometimes when I go to sleep, l find the next day to have such a calmness come over me and I wonder why I got so upset. I have taken several notes from each video/text, and it helps to always go back and review them to keep everything fresh in my heart. Sincerely, Janie”
Janie S.
The healing begins with signing up. Here is what you will get:
12-week online course, which has about 60 20-minute videos
Lifetime access to course and counselors
3-Day trial (no charge for 3 days), that transitions to a
30-day money-back guarantee.
Payment plan that works for you.
Counseling access.*
*We round out the course with access to our specially trained TMF marriage counselors. There are no restrictions on the counseling support. As often as you need, you may write to them.
Select a payment plan that works for you Our “budget” plan is less than $10 a week, billed monthly (11 months). But you can reduce the overall cost by paying over 5 months or all at once. (see the options here)
FAQ #5 – What if my husband wants to join me?
20 to 25 percent of the time, a husband will want to work on the marriage, too. It is unnecessary, but for those husbands who ask, you may add him any time, and there is a special discount.
“We spent five years in Christian marriage counseling. We have spent, literally, hundreds of hours, a weekend retreat, 10-week post-retreat weekly classes. Nothing healed the hurt. I first bought your books. They were very encouraging. But the course is helping me gain the right perspective and a clear path, and I’m already feeling more peaceful in my thinking.
Barbara L.
Select a Payment Plan That Works for You
Our budget plan is less than $10 a week, billed monthly for 11 months. You can also reduce the overall cost by paying over 4 months or all at once.