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“I have been adopting the SEW technique over the past 3-4 weeks now, and things have really calmed down between me and my wife. We are able to have a decent conversation about our basic day to day stuff. At times she does flare up, however I immediately utilize the SEW technique as much as I can, which I am trying to practice every day.”
Jose YOur process is well-defined, methodical, and complete. Our success rate is real. Our testimonials are real. We know that when your marriage is in trouble you don’t need outrageous promises or arrogant platitudes. What you need is simple and straightforward guidance that is tested and proven, not theoretical.
Because we don’t “talk it out”, assign blame, label you, or your wife, or do anything else that is not going to directly move your marriage toward the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony, our course is ideal. All the “usual” “marriage help” that is considered “normal” wastes precious time and energy. When Paul Friedman, our founder was a divorce mediator, over 22 years ago, it was traditional marriage counselors who sent him his business. We know for a fact that “normal” doesn’t work. What Paul created is proven, with thousands of courses already having been used to great success.
Nothing moves your relationship toward happiness as well, whether it is something you come up with on your own, or try from other programs, or learned in counseling. Our process works, and it works like mathematics. It will move you and your marriage forward without fanfare. If your car gets stuck in a snowbank the tow truck operator has already heard all the stories. He doesn’t judge you. He just gets you unstuck. That’s what we do. We are not fancy or glamorous. Everything is simple and transparent. You will know what you are doing and why and what you can expect along the way. Ultimately, you will achieve the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony.
“Just found this guy yesterday and I’m binge watching his videos. I’m definitely gonna get my wife on board with taking the courses and buy the book. I think this guy is the real deal.”
John POur process is well-defined, methodical, and complete. Our success rate is real. Our testimonials are real. We know that when your marriage is in trouble you don’t need outrageous promises or arrogant platitudes. What you need is simple and straightforward guidance that is tested and proven, not theoretical.
Because we don’t “talk it out”, assign blame, label you, or your wife, or do anything else that is not going to directly move your marriage toward the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony, our course is ideal. All the “usual” “marriage help” that is considered “normal” wastes precious time and energy. When Paul Friedman, our founder was a divorce mediator, over 22 years ago, it was traditional marriage counselors who sent him his business. We know for a fact that “normal” doesn’t work. What Paul created is proven, with thousands of courses already having been used to great success.
Nothing moves your relationship toward happiness as well, whether it is something you come up with on your own, or try from other programs, or learned in counseling. Our process works, and it works like mathematics. It will move you and your marriage forward without fanfare. If your car gets stuck in a snowbank the tow truck operator has already heard all the stories. He doesn’t judge you. He just gets you unstuck. That’s what we do. We are not fancy or glamorous. Everything is simple and transparent. You will know what you are doing and why and what you can expect along the way. Ultimately, you will achieve the defined goals of happiness, love, and harmony.
“I wanted to thank you Paul. Your videos and your course saved my marriage. I think of it as a manual, something I never had. 24 years married and we’re at the best place we’ve ever been. Thank you and God bless you!”
Wade S
Men and women are different both physically, and psychophysiologically (how our biology affects our psychology). There are so many manifested differences that unless they are learned, misunderstandings grow like fleas on a dog. Paul recognized, early on, that marriages begin with love but are soon drowning in misunderstanding-caused problems that stem from good people reacting and over-reacting. He realized that a focused effort to understand and control one’s own mind, while learning how their partner’s mind works, while learning how marriages work, is the fastest way to happiness. This was his approach in live sessions, and it works perfectly for our online courses.
Your course will give you so much insight that it will be like turning on the lights. This is the simplest and fastest approach. It is life-changing. Seeing how our “old” selves treated our wives is not easy on the ego but it is necessary and is part of what the SEW™ is for. Paul says eventually we will all “get there” but why not go for it right now.
“I took Paul’s course and have learned to not react to my wife’s behavior and just love her as she is and not make things worse. This is my 3rd marriage and thank God I came to find his solution. Marriage therapy never worked for any of my three marriages. Thank you Paul!”
Micheal BWe assume you want to save your marriage but here are cases we cannot help. If your wife has physically left you, or if she is in an affair, we can’t help you. Nor do we know where you can turn.
Small children are a very good reason to save your marriage, period. But don’t use that as an argument to convince your wife that she must change. Only you can change yourself and only she can change herself, and nobody EVER changes before they are ready. People only change themselves because they can see they need to. Change takes a lot of energy, real commitment, and proper guidance from those who have done it. It is never easy.
Usually men take the course because what they had was good and they still see the possibility for excellent. But if they are taking it only because they are afraid of the unknown, or out of humiliation, or they don’t want to give up out of pride, they generally can’t do what is asked and end up canceling.
We don’t want it to be too late for you and will do our very best to support your efforts. Unless your wife left you or she is in an affair our counselors will do all they can to guide through the tough spots, Just be aware that change takes time, and a wife’s reaction takes longer. What we offer is amazing, but it is still a process. If you are not sure after reading this you can contact our counselors (click here) and they will tell you the truth.
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