Love is like a circle: It has no beginning and it has no end. Each day has its own cycle, as do months, years, and lifetimes. Every single day is complete within itself and is a key part of the greater cycles of years and lifetimes. When we get trapped in a linear trajectory of life, we lose sight of the importance of every moment; we lose sight of the importance of every thought. As an individual, you choose whether you are a victim of the moment or the master of it. It is your choice as to which thoughts will flow through your mind, and it is your thoughts that will determine your own destiny. You have the power. With this power, you can have your relationship last.

The idea of controlling one’s mind is not new, but it has become very confusing. If you think of yourself as the mind, you give away all the power to control it. But when you recognize that you, the essential you, is spiritual — the soul — you realize the power to control the mind comes naturally.

To make a relationship last, infuse every moment with love for your spouse in as many thoughts as you can. Replace those nasty thoughts of criticism with loving thoughts of praise and support. Make each day one filled with thoughts of wanting to please your spouse by giving love in sincere and beautiful ways. Waste no thoughts on ugliness and selfishness. Make all thoughts beautiful flowers in the garden of your mind, and always remember to tell your spouse, “I love you.”