Although getting into a new marriage doesn’t carry the same level of risk as getting into a new business, the statistics are still pretty scary; you almost want to call them “sad-istics.” Yet, what choice do we have but to get married and raise a family in spite of other people’s past experiences? We are driven to do so. Our biology, our psychology, and even our sociology prods and pushes us; then we find the right partner and nothing can stop us. People need guidelines for a happy marriage.
If you think about it, you might wonder why no attention is put on the subject matter of relationships and marriage in school. After all, not everyone needs algebra to get along in life, but everyone needs to understand relationships in order to have a fulfilling marriage. Statistics are blind but they’re not dumb; they’re shouting at the top of their lungs a message of caution and a suggestion to learn and study.
By reading my book, Lessons For A Happy Marriage, anyone can learn what it takes to have a happy, fulfilling, lifelong marriage. Nobody needs to set sail on the ocean of uncertainty filled with all sorts of dangers. When you don’t know how to sail, even the tiniest wind can set you off course. On the other hand, when you have studied and understand the construction of your marriage and the threatening elements that can upset your marriage, you will know exactly what to do; the stormiest seas will become mere zephyrs.
You and your future soulmate deserve to have the happiest marriage ever
You are divine children set in a fragrant garden filled with fruits of love and harmony. Remember the following four points in order to live joyously:
- Marriage is not meant to be hard. Learn the rules and know the tools so you are not doing the equivalent of using a hairbrush for a hammer.
- You are marrying the most important person in your life. Treat them better than you would the president.
- Marriage is where you learn to love unconditionally; always improve your efforts.
- “Fools argue, wise persons discuss.” Never argue with your spouse.