I know some ladies will be reading this even though it is directed toward the guys in your life; it’s OK. Many years ago I saw the movie The Gods Must Be Crazy. One man gave advice to another. The recipient of the advice said, “You’ve been married seven times, how can you give advice?”
He said, “I know all about them; but nobody knows how to live with them…” Well that was a pretty cute line in the movie, but unfortunately a lot of people feel that way. Of course, on the other side of the coin, ladies say the same thing about men. Well I say that kind of talk and joking around will not lead to a happy relationship. You need to stop thinking this way. Even if it sounds funny at first, it establishes a subconscious idea in your mind that will allow you to blame your spouse or significant other rather than look at your own behavior in a particular situation.
It really isn’t too hard to understand women in relationships if you know the biological and physiological drives that create the desires and needs within them. For purposes of this short, and hopefully useful, article allow me to at least eradicate the negative attitudes.
Here are 5 tips:
- Appreciate women for who and what they are. They are not men and don’t want to be.
- Tell them you appreciate them.
- Women want to look beautiful for you. Acknowledge their efforts and tell them they are beautiful.
- Women’s hearts give unconditional love. Reciprocate by telling them you love them.
- Women’s eyes see the best of you. Be your best at all times.
Women want to love their man and show it through loyalty, trust, support, and nurturing. One of the biggest mistakes men make in relationships is they expect their woman to be like one of the guys over time. It’s not really what you want anyway. So don’t make that mistake. Remember to tell the woman of your dreams, “I love you.”