There is an exact science of marriage! Making out and romance makes marriage fun in the beginning. But premarital counseling teaches the exact science of marriage. With that you can stay blissfully happy for the rest of your life.
Happy marriages that last a lifetime are like deep oceans. The ocean of love is undefinable, and the surface only hints at the depth. The initial sizzle of new love gives way to what we call “marital love”. True marital love is unconditional. You have to know how, though.
Though you may start out with the right intentions. But it takes precise knowledge, and time, to really develop unconditional love. And, frankly, without unconditional love a marriage is a sham. How could you possibly hope to know enough about marriage to make it work well, right from the beginning, without premarital counseling? Look at all the failures! Learning the exact science of marriage is basic. Nobody should get married until they learn.
What IsĀ The Exact Science of Marriage
When we speak of an exact science of marriage we do much more than suggest a few do’s and don’ts. In fact, we resist giving “advice” in many areas most people think they need. How can you know what you need?
Our approach is unique, in that we do not only explain relationship “cause and effect”. Our main desire is to teach you how to steer the ship of your married life together. We explain the underlying sciences of marriage. Here are a few examples.
- We emphasize free will. Marriage should never be a relationship of mutual captivity. Both of you have free will, so any attempt to undermine your own, or each other’s, will only hurt your marriage.
- Ā We explain the innate biological drives. This hard science has powerful ramifications. When you understand this science your observations of each other’s behaviors will make sense.
- We teach you about the Sacred Space of Marriage. Understanding your marriage as a unique and very special venue in your lives puts it in proper perspective. It becomes a treasure you will want to cherish and protect.
Your marriage is the most important of all the experiences you will have in your life. It should be the happiest and deepest of all things as well. By learning the exact science of marriage we can unconditionally promise you that your marriage will bring you the treasures you seek, and more.
How Important is Premarital Counseling or Training? It is really important!